NLP Assoc.
Empowering You with Neuro Linguistic Programming
Recently I worked with a coaching client who had a big problem. She had a prospect who was trying to minimize her proposal and remove necessary elements for the service to be performed. My client was pulling her hair out because she just couldn’t see how she was going to get the client to agree …
I have an NLP Practitioner Certification course coming up and one of my participants was concerned that she wouldn’t be able to focus in class. “My mind always wanders” she proclaimed. Here’s the 3 tips I told her to help her keep her attention on what really matters: In NLP we call this being Associated. …
To build great confidence we first need to demolish a few bad habits. Today I was chatting with a few people about confidence. Why do some people have it (and sometimes an overabundance of it) while others lack it? For me, it’s about awareness and choice. First you need to be aware of what prevents …
My client sat before me an absolute wreck. She had been beaten down. By what, I had not yet heard. Her face was ashen and her eyes red and puffy. I could tell from these signs and her slumped posture that things weren’t going well. “What’s happening?” I asked. The menacing list of all of …
When it comes to not achieving our goals, procrastination seems to take the blame a lot. If you think about it though, procrastination has a simple solution. Schedule it and get it done. Here are 5 other things that might be preventing you from reaching your goals: #1 Distraction Wait a minute, there’s a FB …
It sneaks into most of my workshops. It pops up in a lot of my conversations. I hear it pretty much every day from someone. Sometimes I even hear it from myself. It’s the use of generalizations. You hear it when you hear words such as everyone, nobody, always, never, all, nothing, etc. Sometimes people …
I was discombobulated. Something was missing in my life & it was disrupting my inner balance. Suddenly it came to me: I hadn’t been on a course, to a conference or even so much as a workshop in months! I had delivered several for others but hadn’t actually attended one myself. I’m a learning Junkie …
The other day, I was working with a client on her goals and I asked her, “What specifically do you want? What does it look like when you’re doing it? What do you say to yourself and what do others say to you? And what does it feel like when you’re achieving what you want?” …
I may be a little weird but I don’t take marriage advice from a counselor who has been divorced 3 times. I don’t take health advice from a doctor who is overweight. I don’t take fitness advice from a personal trainer who can’t straighten their arms. Call me picky but I believe it’s important to …
Each and every day, we have choices, A LOT of CHOICES. We have choices on what time we get up, what we eat, what we wear, what to work on and how hard to work on it. Basically we have choices on what we do and say from the moment we open our eyes to …
On the last day of my NLP Practitioner Certification Course, my participants read each other trance scripts which they prepared during our work on conversational hypnosis. And after they were done, they proclaimed it was the best exercise they had done with the most impact. Here’s how to create your own: Start with a goal. What do …
When I talk to people who live in the corporate world, I hear a lot about 360 evaluations. I know they serve a purpose but here’s why I don’t like them: Most people I coach have an issue spending too much time being concerned about what other people think of them. I know this isn’t …
