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5 Reasons to Work on Your Weaknesses

January 23, 2023 by Lindley

I know a lot of corporate trainers and coaches that use the Strengths Finder Model to guide their clients to success.  The idea is if you work on your strengths and use them every day then you will be a better leader.  I say, “RUBBISH”. Here are the 5 reasons why I believe you should …

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How to erode your confidence

December 19, 2022 by Lindley Craig

There’s a simple way to erode your confidence and it’s a great way to ensure you never get a promotion as well. Here is your lesson in Eroding Confidence 101. First you must master the art of discounting.  You must be very good at deflecting compliments and praise.  So, when your boss comes to you …

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Thank you very much

December 12, 2022 by Lindley Craig

Last week I talked about how easy it was to erode your confidence in two easy steps. Now for the real bit for people who aren’t into sarcasm. Discounting is a huge problem for people who lack confidence.  As a reminder, discounting is when someone gives you praise or a compliment and you shrug it …

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Top 10 NLP Tips, 5 of 10

October 10, 2022 by Lindley Craig

People often wonder where my self-confidence comes from.  It wasn’t always there, mind you.  I remember being unsure of myself and always concerned what others thought of me and consistently rejecting myself before anyone else had a chance to.  I remember in my NLP Practitioner Certification course doing an exercise where I had to get …

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Top 10 NLP Tips, 6 of 10

October 3, 2022 by Lindley Craig

Tip #6 is all about overcoming rejection.  Before I took my first NLP Practitioner Certification Course, I learned about NLP from Tony Robbins’ live courses.  There was one particular one, Date With Destiny, that changed my life in more ways than one. #6 Complex Equivalents If you’ve ever been to a Tony Robbins’ course, you …

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Top 10 NLP Tips, 7 of 10

September 26, 2022 by Lindley Craig

#7 Outcomes When I first moved to Singapore, something very exciting happened – I got engaged!  I was so excited about getting married within the year and needed to find a wedding dress.  I was enchanted by the Cheongsam, a sleek Chinese styled dress with a high collar and a silhouette hugging shape.  I knew …

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Being a Billionaire

June 6, 2022 by Lindley Craig

The Lottery in the USA has climbed to a record breaking and chokingly high level of $1.3 Billion.  Yup, that’s Billion with a big B. Sales may see that number climb higher than $1.5 Billion before the draw on my birthday, January 13th.  You can yap all you want about the odds of winning  this …

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How Your Food Affects Your Self-Discipline

May 2, 2022 by Lindley Craig

Tip #3  Eat the Right Food for the Brain Willpower doesn’t exist.  It isn’t real.  You can’t will yourself to stop yourself from a bad habit or avoid temptation.  Self-discipline is real!  And it works if you are doing the things you need to do to make sure your self-discipline has all the help it …

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How a Doberman Developed My Self-Confidence

March 21, 2021 by Lindley Craig

When I was growing up, I was a latchkey kid, which meant that when I left elementary school each day, my house was empty and I had a key to let myself in.  Both my parents worked and my sisters were older than I was and their school didn’t get out until after mine. Fortunately …

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3 Mistakes that Give You Bad Habits

March 14, 2022 by Lindley Craig

If you’d rather read than watch, just scroll past the video     Mistake #1 – Allowing Boredom to Set In Boredom is the inability to take responsibility for our own entertainment.  For me, it’s about state change.  You body and your mind don’t want to feel whatever it is that you’re feeling so our …

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Can a Song Trigger Your Confidence?

March 7, 2022 by Lindley Craig

Do you have a song that you listen to that brings you back to a particular place and time?  For me, that song is Boys of Summer.  When I hear that song, I’m transported back to a certain day, lying at the beach when I was 16 years old, surrounded by good looking guys and …

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Are You Flexibly Capable?

February 14, 2022 by Lindley Craig

We all have resources in our lives to help us achieve our goals.  We have our strengths like leadership skills, the ability to negotiate or to resolve conflict, our capacity to work in teams or independently, our intelligence, our confidence, etc.  We also have outside resources such as people we model, mentors, bosses, support staff, …

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