The Encyclopaedia of NLP – a Robert Dilts’ resource Robert Dilts’ & Judith Delozier created this amazing resources in 2000. It’s sorted alphabetically and you can print up to 10 (more…)
Cows & Sheep
Happy Chinese New Year! It is the year of the ox (it is a cow actually but that’s just being picky) and it reminds me of the story of my (more…)
How a Doberman Developed My Self-Confidence
When I was growing up, I was a latchkey kid, which meant that when I left elementary school each day, my house was empty and I had a key to (more…)
Dysfunctional Motivation Works
For some of us, we are highly motivated by stupid stuff. Some of us are motivated because we want to prove ourselves to others. I remember one of my managers (more…)
Your Strategies Are ALWAYS Working
Your strategy always works. No matter what the strategy is, it always works. The question is: Is it getting you where you want to go? A strategy is a (more…)
Cleaning Your Environment with PIGS in your House
One of the key strategies that I focus on with my coaching client’s is environmental control. If you’re an alcoholic, that means removing the alcohol from your home, office, car, (more…)
Focus on the Task not the Outcome
Occasionally, I coach people on presentation skills. I know that a lot of people have a fear of speaking in public, in fact, it’s the biggest fear in the world, (more…)
A Difference in Meaning
Recently someone said to me that I didn’t seem to be very happy. At first I thought it was an insult. I was taken back by the comment because I (more…)