NLP Resources

The Encyclopaedia of NLP – a Robert Dilts’ resource Robert Dilts’ & Judith Delozier created this amazing resources in 2000.  It’s sorted alphabetically and you can print up to 10 pages per day. NLP Wiki Here is another great encyclopaedia resource of NLP stuff.  If you have something to share – NLP wise – please (more…)

Cows & Sheep

Happy Chinese New Year!  It is the year of the ox (it is a cow actually but that’s just being picky) and it reminds me of the story of my husband and I on his farm in New Zealand.  On the farm there are cows and sheep (and a few wild deer but they aren’t (more…)

Using Adult Language at Work

Do you use adult language at work or do you sound like a four-year-old? I’m not a big fan of the news in general but the recent haze epidemic in Singapore has lead me to pay much more attention to the news than I normally do. I was delighted to hear when several retailers pulled (more…)

Are You Running East Looking for the Sunset?

It’s important to know when we are using the wrong strategy to get where we want to go.  If you run east to capture a beautiful sunset, you are using the wrong strategy. There have been many times in my past that I’ve been so caught up in a strategy, I didn’t pull my head (more…)

You Get What You Tolerate

When I first started studying NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming), I was fascinated by how we program our minds.  This programming first starts out unconsciously as we are children growing up modeling the behavior, beliefs and values of others.  As we become adults we can choose to consciously program ourselves such as when we start a (more…)

4 Essential Steps to Stop Overreacting

My husband used to say that I was the Queen of Overreacting.  And I was.  Any little thing could set me off to exaggeration, flying off the handle and jumping to conclusions. Then I learned about NLP and I found all sorts of stuff that made me think twice before I reacted.  After years of (more…)

Remember This

When it comes to remembering things, questions are the key. Our brains are like a vast landscape of information that has particular pathways to retrieve that information.  If you have stored something in your brain consciously (this rarely happens unless you know these memory tricks already) then you create a conscious pathway of how to (more…)

Don’t Accept This Gift This Holiday Season

There’s a gift I don’t think anyone should accept this holiday season or for that matter any season!  Do you want to know what that gift is?  I’m going to tell you and first I need to give you a little background information. You see, it’s that time of year when some of us spend (more…)