The Encyclopaedia of NLP – a Robert Dilts’ resource Robert Dilts’ & Judith Delozier created this amazing resources in 2000. It’s sorted alphabetically and you can print up to 10 (more…)
Cows & Sheep
Happy Chinese New Year! It is the year of the ox (it is a cow actually but that’s just being picky) and it reminds me of the story of my (more…)
How a Doberman Developed My Self-Confidence
When I was growing up, I was a latchkey kid, which meant that when I left elementary school each day, my house was empty and I had a key to (more…)
Dysfunctional Motivation Works
For some of us, we are highly motivated by stupid stuff. Some of us are motivated because we want to prove ourselves to others. I remember one of my managers (more…)
Growth or Death, Pick One
The other day, I was going over someone’s goals with them. For all areas of his life, for the next 20 years, he only had a handful of goals. When (more…)
What You Miss When You Crystal Ball Your Future
I have some friends who just swear by their psychic. They call their local (or sometimes on the other side of the world) fortune teller to ask about what’s to (more…)
My Triggers
Have you ever heard someone say, “He really knows how to push my buttons”? I heard my client say it the other day about someone in his life. It reminded (more…)
Childish Goals
I hadn’t seen John, my former client, in about a year. We normally get together in January to discuss our goals and plans for the coming year. This year was (more…)