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The Encyclopaedia of NLP – a Robert Dilts’ resource Robert Dilts’ & Judith Delozier created this amazing resources in 2000. It’s sorted alphabetically and you can print up to 10 pages per day. NLP Wiki Here is another great encyclopaedia resource of NLP stuff. If you have something to share – NLP wise – please …
Do you set New Year’s Resolutions? I do. Well sort of. I don’t actually call them New Year’s Resolutions. I call them FLOW Goals and they are part of the Strategic Planning I do each year. One particular year, I was determined to get one of my personal goals achieved in record time…until I broke …
It is the time of flowers, chocolates and red hearts. Some call it a marketing gimmick designed by the florists to make us spend more money. Valentine’s day, whether you choose to celebrate it or not, is a day about love. What type of lover are you? Do you give gifts? Do you do something …
I have a lot of beliefs other people find weird. One of these is my belief that if my knee hurts, then I need to exercise it. Most people believe that if something hurts you stop exercising. I’m a rebel. I just can’t think like that. A few years ago, I fell while skiing and …
I learned a valuable lesson from Darren Hardy, in his book, The Compound Effect. Darren is a firm believer of eliminating all needless drama in life. And the first on his list of things to go is news. You know, the news programs that come on at the end of the day, or worse, the …
I’ve worked with some marketing and sales experts as an entrepreneur and all of them just love niche marketing. It is that idea that you have a client base or product line that is an inch wide and a mile deep. The smaller your niche (to some extent) the better you are able to attract …
I was walking up the hill behind my apartment complex to start my run. And as I was walking up the hill, I came across a man walking towards me. It wasn’t necessarily unusual for me to see someone on this road. It’s frequented by runners, walkers and cyclists. Though, on this particular day, …
I know a lot of corporate trainers and coaches that use the Strengths Finder Model to guide their clients to success. The idea is if you work on your strengths and use them every day then you will be a better leader. I say, “RUBBISH”. Here are the 5 reasons why I believe you should …
There is a trend in the self-improvement industry about Mindfulness. It’s the idea that we need to focus on the “now” rather than having our heads in the future or worse, the past. I love being the outsider in my field, so I don’t agree with the Mindfulness Movement for the following reasons. There are …
The other day my friend reminded me of the urgent need for NLP skills for doctors. She was having surgery and her anesthesiologist told her that the medication that he was giving her to put her under was the “same stuff Michael Jackson liked.” With wide eyes, she looked at the doctor and said, “You …
There’s a simple way to erode your confidence and it’s a great way to ensure you never get a promotion as well. Here is your lesson in Eroding Confidence 101. First you must master the art of discounting. You must be very good at deflecting compliments and praise. So, when your boss comes to you …
Last week I talked about how easy it was to erode your confidence in two easy steps. Now for the real bit for people who aren’t into sarcasm. Discounting is a huge problem for people who lack confidence. As a reminder, discounting is when someone gives you praise or a compliment and you shrug it …
